TM
"This is going to be a bloodbath."
-Abuser to the targeted parent
navigate family court, protect your family
You want to keep things amicable and act in your children's best interest. But your co-parent is declaring war.
​
If you're divorcing a partner who is combative and narcissistic, the well-meaning advice from loved ones does not apply. Because our family court system is woefully ill-equipped to see the manipulation, victimhood and cunning charm.
A high conflict parent is self-serving. Driven by a 'scorched earth' mentality, they use coercive control tactics to ruthlessly tip the balance of power in their favor. Devaluing, intimidation and chronic blaming escalate. And when emotional and financial control don't silence you, they use your children and systems against you.
​
Whether you are going through an abusive divorce, planning your way out, or struggling to co-parent with your hostile ex, we can help.
your ally and advocate in an abusive divorce
We are certified high conflict divorce coaches who have been on the front lines and are intensely driven to help counter the emotional and financial ruin of an abusive divorce, custody and co-parenting. We're guided by a value system that places the best interest of children above individual parental rights, and to reduce the power imbalance that protective parents experience.
​
Stomping On Eggshells coaches are trained through the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Created by national family court advocate, Tina Swithin of One Mom's Battle and author of Divorcing a Narcissist, it's the nation's first and only coaching program specializing in high conflict divorce and custody cases fueled by narcissistic traits and coercive control.
​
We'll guide you through 3 pivotal areas of high conflict divorce and custody that can make or break your case. And, we'll help you adopt an empowered mindset for seeing your situation in a radically new light. ​
_ed.jpg)
OUR APPROACH
The process of divorcing an entitled partner is not quick, amicable or fair. Most court professionals lack coercive control literacy and don't understand its impact on families as shown by the quickness to 'equalize' and hold both parties responsible for "high conflict" behavior.
While laws and courts are slowly getting up to speed on the covert dynamics of coercive control, we take action now by increasing your custody court fluency. When you work with one of our high conflict divorce coaches, you gain a strategic ally and personal advocate to guide you through every step of the divorce, custody and co-parenting process so that you're better prepared to navigate a hostile ex-partner within an invalidating system.
Stomping On Eggshells offers a unique and specialized coaching experience you won't find in traditional divorce coaching, because our Show and Tell approach spans 3 key areas of high conflict divorce and child custody:
Legal
preparation
Break out of 'he said, she said' with courtroom-ready documentation your attorney can use.
NARRATIVE
CONSTRUCTION
Counter false narratives by describing patterns and impact - clearly, concisely and confidently.
CO-PARENTING communication
Take the fear out of day-to-day co-parenting with effective approaches that work in your favor.
CLIENT FEEDBACK
"I got the result I hoped for and you played a big role. While I'm still in the middle of this ugly war, I won this battle. I am so glad I found you."​
-J, Worcester County, MA
"I am fortunate to have found you and felt a little more in control when everything seemed like it was falling apart.."
-S, Queens County, NY
​
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your crusade. You are changing lives for the better.
​
K, Middlesex County, MA
​
"I followed your suggestion for responding to an OFW message and for the first time my ex did not come back with another attack."
J, Northampton County, PA
​